Me and my boyfriend broke up. To be honest, he broke up with me, didn't love me anymore. Two days later, my dad has a brain anuresum and stroke, and guess who never came by? Yep, the ex, which made me realize...I dodged a bullet, because I never knew how heartless someone could be. I guess I was in love with the though of love, that I did not get more insight on him. Well, live and learn, I don't think I want to be his friend, I wish him the best and all, but he showed me he is a terrible friend. So my dad is alive, still in an induced coma, but he will make it, thank God. He was at the right place at the right time, and I am praying hard for him, I love him so much, more than I show. Because I am kinda a black sheep, but when it come down to it, I would DIE for each and every member of my family. They mean that much to me, more than I can ever convey. The other shocker, I am moving to Maine. Yep, I am going from Chicago to MAINE! Kinda a shock to the world, but I don't wanna join the army anymore after all this, and this is my friend who didn't want me to join. I am very excited, and I cannot WAIT to leave friday. Not that I want to leave my father, but I have job interviews, I plan on coming back down to Chicago in a month. So I wonder how different Maine is, cause my friend Justin I am moving with is the ONLY person I will know....well, there is another justin, but he lives a ways away in maine. any advice or words of wisdon are welcome